~ Me - You - We ~

Man and Women are weird and unpredicted creature.. Agree?? Look back into your past and now.. Every moment both being together from the very start point of relationship.. From strangers to friends to close friends and end up couple.. Each stages and each moments remains in your heart no matter is good or bad.. Try to recall how you got to know your partner.. Most of us will give a smile and chuckle when think of it ..What is equally important is now and future.. Do you feel happy with your relationship?? Do you think he/she will be your life partner??  I had encounter many cases where couple can goes on with their relationship with a LAME excuse.. BORING with the partner... If your boring with the relationship just after 1 or 2 years, how are you going to spend the rest of your life with your partner?? This will how a relationship goes if both are not playing their part to retain their relationship and it turns out to be just another disaster..

So, who to be blame?? Guy or Girl?? I would said both.. Relationship is just like growing flowers.. You put all your efforts and time when you wanted the plant to grow  as just like how you want the girl/guy to fall in love with you.. Once the plant growing, it's excited like a new couple sharing everything about themselves and talks from A-Z.. It seems like the world just belongs to both of them and they are living in their own world.. The peak of the relationship is when they both have intimate relationship and both believe that their mend for each other.. This is the time where the flower blossom which are the prettiest and sweetest.. As time pass, it's the time here flower shed if we take for granted as we think that we're inside the comfort zone.. All the efforts and time once use to plant the flower until it blossom has been used for other things.. We got bored with the same thing and if we don't do n try to make sometime new.. It ended up shedding of flower and each of us looking for another plant to grow which is a new relationship.. 

Thus, i would said that the most difficult part in a relationship is to maintain the relationship.. It's not one person job but both have to work it out.. We can't expect the other parties to work alone in the relationship.. If we manage to maintain a relationship, it will be just like maintaining a flower which will be sweet and pretty always.. Now, take a deep breath and think if your're having problems with your relationship, work it out.. It's never too late and don't regret and give LAME excuses to stop yourself in making it works.. 

Now, let's share out methods, experiences or problems in relationship by just sending email to voiceout@hotmail.my. You're not alone and it's best that you share it out than keep it alone..